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WANDERMAN'S
TIPS AND
ADVICE FOR STUDENTS, TEACHERS, AND PARENTS
- by Richard Wanderman
ADVICE FOR STUDENTS:
Pull everything out of your teacher;
pull everything out of your fellow students. Pull everything
out of yourself. Work hard. Then work harder.
- Success isn't how far you got, but
the distance you traveled from here you started.
- Consider everything
an experiment.
- Learn by trial
and error, and don't avoid the errors.
- Learning doesn't
happen in class, it happens when you get home and look at the
wall. Don't forget to make time for looking at walls.
- Be self-disciplined.
- Be a self-advocate.
- Assume that
others are always doing their best.
- Work. If you
work it will lead to something. It's the people who do all of
the work all of the time who eventually catch on to things. Worrying
about work doesn't get it done, it only makes getting started
harder.
- Get good at
something other than school-related work (like skate boarding
or cooking).
- Don't try to
create and analyze at the same time. They're different processes.
- Don't spend
energy worrying; just get started and it'll work out.
- Subscribe to
many magazines, the more pictures the better. Don't feel bad
about not reading them cover to cover, just have them around
and read what interests you, even if it's just one article.
- It's the process,
not the product that counts, because you can use it again and
again and it transfers.
- Don't do school-related
work under pressure. Allow lots of extra time for things that
are hard, and for everything else, too.
- Learning opportunities
are everywhere, not just in academic settings. The more stuff
you do, the more you learn. But, don't overdo it.
- Read anything
you can get your hands on. Comic books involve decoding just
as great literature does. Read billboards and road signs.
- Always be around.
- Come or go
to everything.
- Always go to
classes.
- Write lots
of letters.
Learn
- Learn from your
mistakes. There is no win and no fail, there's only honest effort.
- Learn how to keyboard.
- Learn to read and
use maps.
- Learn to read and
use indexes.
- Learn to use a library.
- Learn to cook and
deal with food.
- Learn to ask questions
without feeling stupid.
Give
- Give others some
slack; it makes life easier.
- Give yourself some
slack; it makes life easier.
- Watch movies, regularly.
- Travel whenever and wherever you can.
- Save everything; it might come in
handy later.
Be happy whenever you can manage
it. Enjoy yourself. It's your life.
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ADVICE FOR TEACHERS:
- Pull everything out of your students.
- Extend yourself.
- Be creative.
- Don't assess a student's capabilities
based on his or her folder or I.Q. test scores.
- Don't be scared to make a mess (mistakes)
in front of students. If learning takes place through modeling,
you must model the process of working things out, from scratch,
mistakes and all.
- Assume that others are always doing
their best.
Be happy whenever you can manage
it. Enjoy yourself. It's your life.
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ADVICE FOR PARENTS:
- Be there, but don't smother kids.
Not enough interest is neglect; too much scrutiny can smother.
Assume that kids are trying as hard as they can, even though
you might not think so.
- Keep the pressure low.
- Allow plenty of time and space for
any reading and writing.
- Assume that others are always doing
their best.
- Learning how to read and write takes
a lot of time and work. Make sure you give your kids enough time
and space for them to learn.
- Make sure kids practice reading and
writing every day. Don't let them miss a day for anything. Sit
on them, but not too hard.
- Make sure there's a World Book Encyclopedia
in the house. Any year is okay. Buy it used. (Why World Book?
Pictures!)
- Learning takes place after the fact,
while your kid is looking at the wall, not while he/she's in
a classroom at school. When they get home, give them the time
and space to look at walls.
- If you treat kids like animals, they
act like animals. Kids are kids. Don't forget it. You were a
kid once too.
- Don't romanticize your past too much,
kids resent it and it probably wasn't as good as you think it
was. Avoid phrases like: "when I was a kid..." or,
"when I was your age..." or, "just wait until
you're my age..." or, "kids today..." It's easy
to have 20/20 hindsight.
Be happy whenever you can manage
it. Enjoy yourself. It's your life.
Note: portions of this list came from
The Whole Earth Catalog, CoEvolution Quarterly, and The Whole
Earth Review.
© 1990 Richard Wanderman
richard@ldresources.com
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This section is added to from time
to time as data are gathered. The starting point for this section
was a survey taken at two middle and high schools. Both teachers
and students were questioned to get at their concerns, questions,
and comments with respect to special education. Your input is
valued. Find the section marked Reader
Response to give your ideas and comments.
COMMENTS FROM STUDENTS
- "Teachers should believe that
I am trying. Sometimes things are harder for me than for some
other students. It hurts my feelings when they think I'm just
not trying."
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- "I can't remember what you said
when you give assignments right at the end of the period. There
is too much confusion. Everybody is getting ready to go and I
can't think or remember then."
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- "Don't talk so much. It makes
me zone out."
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- "Mrs. X is a good teacher because
she explains so I can understand."
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- "I like doing projects in history
and science instead of just having to write all the time. Like
the time we did a radio show from the time of WW II. I could
really do that and it was fun. It was fun making all of those
sound effects."
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- "I hate it when we have to take
notes during a movie. I can't watch and write at the same time.
He says it is important to take notes but I never get through
writing down one important thing before the movie is on to ten
more."
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- "Why do we have to study this
stuff? How will it help me in life?"
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- "Everybody else understands this
stuff (math) but I don't. I know the teacher thinks I'm dumb.
I do too."
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- "I liked it when we got to carve
a totem pole. The Indians in the northwest really loved their
totem poles. They all had a special animal that was like their
personal one. They believed they got power from that animal and
had their strengths. I chose a gazelle because I run fast. American
Indians are neat."
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- "I wish just once I would get
called on when I know the answer."
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- "I'm going to be a mechanic in
my dad's garage. Just wait until a teacher comes in to get their
car fixed. They won't think I'm so dumb then!"
COMMENTS FROM TEACHERS
- "Resource teachers should tell
regular ed. teachers how to help the students."
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- "Help!"
"It's especially helpful when
my students tell me what they need. I get so busy trying to reach
all the students that I sometimes miss the obvious."
"Teaching is getting harder
and harder all the time. I really appreciate it when I have a
good resource teacher who can help me get a handle on what her
kids need."
"I'm amazed at how hard some
of my students work! I know the class is tough but they just
keep on trying. I wish all my kids worked as hard."
"I think it is perfectly okay
to give him a chance to tell me the material orally instead of
writing out a test. The idea is to find out if he knows the stuff,
not if he can write or not."
"Group activities work best
if I structure them really well. I usually give the job of keeping
the group on task to a strong student and choose jobs that suit
each of the students. For instance, I would never have X be the
recorder because he writes so slowly, but he is a great artist
so he often designs the product the group will make. I can tell
he understands the work by the way he does his part."
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- "To me the point of doing group
activities is so that every kid can really be involved in learning.
I know they seem like more work but they do the trick. Kids really
get a handle on the material better when they get in and get
their hands dirty with the ideas."
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- "Years ago I used to lecture
all the time. I almost never have more than 15 minutes of lecture
at a time now. And I always give the class an outline of what
I am going to say or put it on the overhead before I speak. That
way they don't have to try to write and listen at the same time."
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- "Kids ask all the time, 'Why
do we have to learn this?' Sometimes it's hard to answer them.
Part of the problem is that we are teaching stuff based on the
assumption that all the kids will go to college or have a white
collar job. You know what? It isn't so. I think we should teach
to the reality of life. Some will be plumbers, some mechanics.
Should they have to learn the fine details of molecular biology?
No. But there is plenty they need to know. Like how to read a
blueprint, and how to understand instructional manuals. That's
math, and science, and English."
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WHAT IS INTELLIGENCE, ANYWAY?
by Isaac Asimov
What is intelligence, anyway? When I
was in the army, I received the kind of aptitude test that all
soldiers took and, against a normal of 100, scored 160. No one
at the base had ever seen a figure like that, and for two hours
they made a big fuss over me. (It didn't mean anything. The next
day I was still a buck private with KP - kitchen police - as my
highest duty.)
All my life I've been registering scores
like that, so that I have the complacent feeling that I'm highly
intelligent, and I expect other people to think so, too. Actually,
though, don't such scores simply mean that I am very good at answering
the type of academic questions that are considered worthy of answers
by people who make up the intelligence tests--people with intellectual
bents similar to mine?
For instance, I had an auto-repair man
once, who, on these intelligence tests, could not possibly have
scored more than 80, by my estimate. I always took it for granted
that I was far more intelligent than he was. Yet, when anything
went wrong with my car I hastened to him with it, watched him
anxiously as he explored its vitals, and listened to his pronouncements
as though they were divine oracles--and he always fixed my car.
Well, then, suppose my auto-repair man
devised questions for an intelligence test. Or suppose a carpenter
did, or a farmer, or, indeed, almost anyone but an academician.
By every one of those tests, I'd prove myself a moron. And, I'd
be a moron, too. In a world where I could not use my academic
training and my verbal talents but had to do something intricate
or hard, working with my hands, I would do poorly. My intelligence,
then, is not absolute but is a function of the society I live
in and of the fact that a small subsection of that society has
managed to foist itself on the rest as an arbiter of such matters.
Consider my auto-repair man, again.
He had a habit of telling me jokes whenever he saw me. One time
he raised his head from under the automobile hood to say: "Doc,
a deaf-and-mute guy went into a hardware store to ask for some
nails. He put two fingers together on the counter and made hammering
motions with the other hand. The clerk brought him a hammer. He
shook his head and pointed to the two fingers he was hammering.
The clerk brought him nails. He picked out the sizes he wanted,
and left. Well, Doc, the next guy who came in was a blind man.
He wanted scissors. How do you suppose he asked for them?"
Indulgently, I lifted my right hand
and made scissoring motions with my first two fingers. Whereupon
my auto-repair man laughed raucously and said, "Why, you
dumb jerk, he used his voice and asked for them." Then he
said smugly, "I've been trying that on all my customers today."
"Did you catch many? I asked. "Quite a few," he
said, "but I knew for sure I'd catch you." "Why
is that?" I asked. "Because you're so goddamned educated,
Doc, I knew you couldn't be very smart."
And I have an uneasy feeling he had
something there.
© Isaac Asimov
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